“We don’t owe you shit.”
Actually, we owe each other mutual respect. As you have had no interest in listening to how these behaviours hurt me, I’m not sure why I should care about your opinions. Why do I owe you that?
I mean jesus, toxic masculinity HURTS MEN too. http://www.salon.com/2015/06/12/toxic_masculinity_is_killing_men_the_roots_of_male_trauma_partner/